C.H.E.M.I.S.T.R.Y.™ Model for Pre-Marital Counselling
Creating Harmonious Emotional Marital Insight & Support Through Relationship Yardsticks
“The chemistry you seek in love begins with understanding, communication, and alignment.”
Whether you’re engaged or considering marriage, the C.H.E.M.I.S.T.R.Y.™ Model offers a powerful framework to explore every essential aspect of your future relationship.
It’s not just about love—it’s about lasting connection.
Why C.H.E.M.I.S.T.R.Y.™ Matters in Pre-Marital Counselling:
Creates emotional and practical alignment between partners- Builds awareness of strengths, gaps, and relationship dynamics
- Prevents future conflicts by addressing core compatibility
- Makes counselling memorable, engaging, and easy to implement
- Strengthens relationship foundation—before the vows are exchanged
Breakdown of the C.H.E.M.I.S.T.R.Y.™ Model
C – Core Personality
“Know yourself, to understand each other.”
Explore personality types, temperaments, and behavioural traits that influence interaction and decision-making.
H – History & Healing
“What you bring from your past can shape your future.”
Uncover family influences, unresolved trauma, past relationships, and how they affect trust and bonding.
E – Emotional Intelligence
“Emotions are the heart of connection.”
Assess empathy, emotional regulation, conflict reaction, and ability to support each other emotionally.
M – Mutual Values & Beliefs
“Shared values are the compass of a strong marriage.”
Clarify core life values, faith traditions, cultural practices, and moral standpoints that affect daily living and long-term harmony.
I – Intimacy & Individual Needs
“Intimacy thrives when both closeness and freedom are honored.”
Discuss love languages, emotional and sexual needs, and creating space for individual growth within the relationship.
S – Shared Goals & Financial Vision
“Money talks—so couples should too.”
Align on major life goals like children, career, and home ownership, along with financial priorities, spending habits, and budgeting strategies.
T – Talk & Conflict Resolution
“How you argue can matter more than what you argue about.”
Develop healthy communication styles, learn effective conflict resolution techniques, and understand triggers and repair patterns.
R – Roles & Responsibilities
“Clarity creates peace in the partnership.”
Set clear expectations for household roles, parenting duties, career support, and boundaries with extended family or in-laws.
Y – Your Vision as a Couple
“A couple with a vision builds a future with intention.”
Craft a shared relationship vision that reflects hopes, dreams, and the kind of marriage you both desire to build.
Ready to Discover Your Relationship Chemistry?
Pre-Marital Counselling with the C.H.E.M.I.S.T.R.Y.™ Model is a powerful step toward a conscious, connected, and compassionate marriage.
Let’s go beyond the wedding—and focus on building the marriage you both deserve.
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